Jealousy is quite possibly the worst kind of emotion that you can experience.
Jealousy is quite possibly the worst kind of emotion that you can experience. It leaves you feeling bitter and angry on the inside. It is not an emotion that you want to entertain after you have divorced your ex-spouse. Once you are divorced, you need to move on and not worry about what your ex-spouse is getting up to.
This can be easier said than done, especially if you hear via the grapevine that your ex is dating again soon after the divorce has been finalized. It’s okay to have these emotions. However you must keep them in check otherwise you can end up doing all sorts of irrational things like stalking your ex, harassing him or her and making things uncomfortable for all parties concerned including your children.
Mind Your Own Business
When you hear that your ex is dating, it’s only natural to ask certain questions about the new partner. You will compare yourself to the new partner and this alone can drive your crazy. The sooner you come to terms with the fact that you and your ex-are no longer an item, the better.
Both you and he has the right to date whomever you wish to. You should be happy that your ex-has moved on as this means that you are no longer on his or her radar. Give your blessings to this new union as, according to the law of attraction, it may just help you to find your perfect match. It is said that if you want something, you should first give it away, so give your blessings and it will come back to you tenfold.
Be Secure in Yourself
Jealousy stems from feelings of insecurity within yourself. There is no need to be insecure as you have everything you need to enjoy a healthy relationship with the right person for you. You should focus on your own life and achieve bliss and harmony for yourself so that you are not concerned with who your ex is dating or not date. The more self-confident you are, the happier you will become and the more likely you are to find someone more suited to you. Carrying the negativity of jealousy will only hinder your chances of living a happy and fulfilled life.
When you are confident and positive, you will attract the right people into your life and be able to enjoy healthier relationships.
Jealous people tend to try control other people’s lives, and you must avoid this at all costs. Not only are you going to make your ex-angry, but you will also drive yourself insane. You will become obsessed with your ex, and that is not why you got divorced. You got divorced because of you and your ex-were, not a match and so that you can both move on to greener pastures. You owe it to yourself to find yourself so that you can live a peaceful and happy life.
Disclaimer : This article provides basic information only and is not a substitute for a professional or legal advice. It is prudent to obtain legal advice from a family lawyer.