These struggles and constant tension is completely normal. However, when these issues are never fully resolved (due to fault of both parties), they can cause lasting problems i.e. discussions of divorce and leaving one another. Therefore, if you have ever asked yourself, “How Can I Save My Relationship?” you definitely are not alone.
Many people want to save their romantic relationships, but sometimes there is just so much tension that resolving issues becomes an issue itself. Such is the vulnerability of a man-woman relationship that it NEEDS nurturing and care every single day, so that the fruits of respect, trust, intimacy, and romance can be enjoyed throughout life.
Are you facing relationship issues? If so, then instead of watching all your hard work go downhill, follow these tips to save your relationship once and for all:
If you both are thinking about leaving each other, it is time that you re-evaluate the reasons you are together. Fights and arguments are part of every relationship and things do get complicated. However, this is where you really need to work hard. Ask yourself: “Why did I fall in love with this person?” “What qualities do you find valuable and interesting?”, “What made you both so amazing?”, and “What has changed between you two?”
By going back to the beginning, you can think clearly about why you wanted to stay together in the first place. It is a good start towards saving your relationship, while also strengthening your existing foundation.
Probably one of the biggest reasons most relationships fail is lack of communication. Bear in mind if you do not communicate you will never know what is going on in your lover’s mind. However, it is important that you be patient and calm. The right way of communicating is asking your partner a relevant question, listening to what they have to say, and then offering your opinion or a solution.
Also, avoid holding things in your heart if you feel it bothers you. 99% of the time, your issue is not even with your partner, but you are just projecting something onto them. By talking about it, you have a better chance to solve disputes.
This may seem totally against the purpose of saving your relationship, but often a little time alone helps in sorting things out. Talk about it with your partner and tell him/her how much you want to save your relationship and that you feel you both need some time alone to recharge and relax. Spending some alone time helps thinking about issues more clearly and what might actually have been the problem between you two.
Let Go of Physical Tension
With all the fights, arguments and stress, we as humans often tend to forget about one of the most important factors that keep us connected: making love. Let go of the physical tension between you two and never pass up the chance to get intimate. More often than not, a few cuddles, kisses, and hugs can work great too. Show how much you adore your partner.
So, if you feel your relationship might end and you want to save it, follow the abovementioned tips.